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There was كان هناك a boy ولد who was always كان دائما losing يفقدhis
temper صوابه . His father والده gave him اعطاه a bagحقيبة full مليئه of
nails مساميرand said قال to him اليه, “My son يا بني , I want you اريدك
to hammerتدق a nail مسمارintoبداخل our garden حديقتنا fence سياج
every time كل مره you need تحتاجto direct يفرغ your anger غضبك
against ضد something شئ and you lose your temper
.”
So the son started to follow يتبع his father’s
advice نصيحة. On the first day he hammered in 37
nails, but getting ادخال the nails into the fence
was not easy, so he started trying يحاول to
control himself لتحكم بنفسه when he got angry. As the
days went by مضت الايام, he was hammering in less اقل
nails, and within weeks مع مرور الأسابيع he was able قادر to
control himself and was able to refrain يمسك
from getting angry and from hammering
nails. He came to his father and told him اخبره
what he had achieved حققه. His father was happy
with his effortsمجهود and said to him: “But now,
my son, you have to take out تخرجa nail for
every day that you do not get angry غضب.”
The son started to take out the nails for
each day that he did not get angry الايام التي لم يكن غاضبا فيها, until
there were no nails left in the fence.
He came to his father and told him what he
had achieved. His father took him اخذهto the
fence and said, “My son, you have done
well حسنا, but look at these holes الثقوب in the fence.
This fence '' will never be the same again لن يعود كسابق عهده .”
Then he added اظاف: “When you say things in a
state حالة of angerغضب, they leave خلفت marks أثار like these
holes on the hearts قلوب of others الآخرين. You can stab طعنه
a person and withdraw تسترد او تسحب the knife but it
doesn’t matter لم يعد مهما how many times كم من المرات you say ‘I’m
sorry,’ because the wound الالم will remain يبقى
give a sailable title to this story ? اعطي عنوان مناسب للقصة
Now tell us about your self ..الآن اخبرنا عن نفسك
by answering the following questions من خلال إجابتكم الأسئلة التالية
( use some words in story ) : استخدموا بعض الكلمات الموجودة في القصة
Are you losing your temper easily ? هل تفقد أعصابك بسهوله ؟؟
Did you hurt a person before ?هل آذيت شخص من قبل ؟
Or Did someone hurt you ? أو هل أذاك شخص ما ؟
If that happened ما لو حدث هذا .. then tell us when اذا اخبرنا متى is it in past or nowadays ? هل هو في الماضي أو الأيام الحالية
What is sorry for you ? ما هو الأسف بالنسبة لك ؟
And what is forgiven for you ? ما هو التسامح بالنسبة لك
Do you forgive and forget hurt easily ? هل تسامح و تنسى الألم بسهوله ؟
What is the 1st thing you would do when you try to apologize to someone ? ما هو أول شيء تود فعله عندما تحاول التسامح من احد ما ؟
Do you say I am sorry face to face , or you send a letter , or you give a card with presents , or .. or ... etc say the way you prefer
اكتب طريقتك المضلة في الاعتذار
Do you think when a person hurt you the pain will remain ?
هل تعتقد عندما يجرحك شخص ما أن الألم سيظل ؟؟
You are free to writ and telling us anything you like
لديكم كامل الحرية أن تكتبوا ما تريدون ..... ...
I like to see your comments .
أحب أن أرى تعليقاتكم
اكتبوا تعبير بأسلوبكم الخاص مستفيدين من كلا من الكلمات في القصة و من الأسئلة السابقة في صياغة أفكاركم و أرائكم أتمنى أن لا يتجاوز التعبير 15 سطرا و أن لا يقل أيضا عن 10 اسطر